Ben is an INTP.
Ben spent most of his time growing up in PA. His parents kept a tight reign on him, and he moved fairly often during grade school. Ben was also rather nerdy, wore big glasses, was bereft of social skills, and had no friends. Because of all these factors, Ben was disposed to spending much of his time by himself. He read a lot, played in the woods, and had many hobbies throughout the years. To this day Ben is an introvert, perhaps due to his childhood.
In eighth grade Ben moved to Massachusetts, picked up the guiltar, and learned fast. He spent his free time either playing his new axe, on the computer (playing games or hacking his dad’s Mac with ResEdit), or playing with his siblings.
In high school Ben made his first two friends, and they invited him to a youth group at a local church. This marked a turning point in Ben’s social life, or more accurately, the beginning of it. Through this group he met some folks that graciously accepted the nerdy boy from Stow into their circle of friends.
One of these was a beautiful red-headed senior girl that Ben (having no social skills and plenty of raging hormones) decided to call one night because “there was a full moon”. This girl politely talked on the phone for a bit and invited Ben to a Young Life meeting. This was to be the start of many long phone conversations and a wonderful relationship. Mind you, Ben was still wearing sweat pants to school and FOLDING his tube socks during this point in his sophomore year. When analyzing the complex thoughts of the girl, psychologists still can’t understand why she agreed to talk to or befriend the nerdy boy two years her junior. When asked what combination of drugs, hypnosis, and brainwashing Ben used to convince the girl to date him, he simply replied, “That’s my little secret.”
During high school Ben experienced hard times at home, and his parents divorced during his sophomore year. This split Ben’s family down the middle, leaving deep scars. His friends, the red-headed girl and her family, Young Life, and church groups helped him through these hard years.
Ben discovered that the music room was a comfortable place to display his talents. He joined all the choral groups he could, started a men’s a cappella group, and played in the jazz band. He played guitar for Young Life club meetings and at church. During his senior year he acquired his first student and has been teaching ever since.
Ben went to college for music education at UMass Lowell. He married Jill in 2001 and graduated in 2004. He has worked as a music teacher, farmer, IT consultant, web designer, and programmer.
Mr. Holt has many hobbies. He likes fishing, gaming, coding, biking, reading, volleyball, frisbee, playing guitar, recording music, hiking, and musical electronics.
Ben is an introvert – he does moderately well in public when he’s there, but gets tired of people after a while and likes to crawl back inside his man-cave. Ben is a truth seeker. He likes to debate, discuss, and think.
Ben is a Christian. This means that he follows the ways of his lord and commander, Jesus Christ. He’s far from perfect, however, and often has trouble putting ideas into practice.
In 2009, Ben found out he was going to be a father. Since he never planned on being one, he was a little shocked and scared. You could say that Ben is not that fond of babies. But today Alice and her dad get along very well.
Jill is an (ESFJ).
It is questionable that she loves maroon pants and tucked in blue shirts… she is a pale red-head though. Perhaps cayanne-pepper head these days đ
Jill is a Massachusetts native who was blessed to live in the same house growing up, play in the woods, be part of the local church, and be the forth of five children in a multi-generational household. She was impacted by the ministry of Young Life in high school which led her to believe on Jesus Christ as her personal savior.
Jill met Ben at the end of high school. He was a nice kid from youth group who kept calling her with interesting fun facts. Do you know that more babies are born during a full moon? Jill did not know that! Conversations soon evolved from discussing the moon to planning life together.
After four years at Gordon College Jill and Ben got married. They enjoyed their cats, hobbies and church involvement. Jill got baptized in the Merrimack River! She worked 9 years in special education and then switched gears and be at home when her daughter was born.
âWe should homeschoolâ says Ben one day. Homeschool!? This was unfamiliar territory. Jillâs prayer became, âGod if this is a good fit for us, please help me get excited.â And so it was! They have loved the joys of homescholing. Though not always easy, it has been very rich and a true blessing.
These days Jill enjoys being involved in the home-making life, ministry with women, bible studies, cardio dance, and handicrafts. She enjoys being involved in the local homeschool community and teaching guitar lessons to kids. She is still often found pondering the merits of maroon pants.